Although homosexual dating sites provide a useful program in allowing people meet up with each other, Christopher Halton produces for PinkNews of how they can additionally place some gay guys in danger.
On Monday, I found myself among 30 or more guys to take part in the filming of an advertisement for Survivors UK, a lotto funded charity setup to aid boys who’ve been raped or sexually abused. Nevertheless, I have never been a victim me, and went to the shoot just as an extra.
Beforehand, we researched the charity and read the testimony of a young people who’d fulfilled somebody he’d become talking to on an internet dating website. It had been the very first get in touch with he had had together with other gay people. At first the go out choose to go better, but it concluded poorly and he is raped.
As a user of homosexual adult dating sites, this made me consider the hazard intrinsic in encounter guys who i understand absolutely nothing about, besides the things they decide to tell me, which may or may not be genuine. My personal experience with meeting males from the websites has-been extremely good, and that I usually prided me on getting a great assess of personality. But due to the fact saying goes, satisfaction arrives before a fall. In fact, We hardly ever really determine if the individual I am going to see was a safe bet. It is a threat I bring.
This realisation ended up being additional compounded once I recently re-joined Grindr. My love affair with Grindr is without question a lot more of an unfortunate affair which inevitably concludes with me removing the software from my personal cellphone within a couple of days. My current attempt may be the last one i am going to making. If formerly, my personal ideas towards the system were ambivalent, they’ve got now been crystallised: We positively hate it.